I LOVE YOU
The usage of these three words ' I Love You' collectively are often seen common these days.Not only guys but the girls also know well how to use it and at what time.As this phrase is becoming too common to be valued anymore.With the upcoming trends and mindset , Love is actually degrading
its emotional values,with increment of materialistic needs.
What is Love? If I ask you,or if I say,do you ever felt for it?Or i say,do you know the perfect definition for that? I suppose I will come across some of the most manipulated, diplomatic statements with few honest simple sentences.Actually no one exactly knows the answers, because these things can't be claimed what is the value of saying 'I Love You',it is only to felt among the two desperate for each other's acceptance which will last forever. But do you really think,this forever will ever survive,as per the present scenario,40% of love marriages are being divorced in long runs,and this is the real fact now.
I reaalised the value of Real Love,not when I see couples kissing or the romantic scenes on Television,I found it between an old couple living just in my neighbourhood, once in a morning, when i was just leaving my house for my college,I saw a person near about seventy years of age holding the hands of lady around sixty five years or near by it.The uncle and the aunty are happily married since 40 years i guess,yet i was amazed when i saw uncle holding hand of aunty with such a grip and concern, which is hardly seen in the lovebirds these days.
Each day I watch them, when they both leave the house together for a morning walk,hand in hand,they have walked miles,not only in the jogging court, but also in the journey of life.The intensity of concern in the eyes of uncle can be easily measured in trust and devotion of aunty.
They are so old,hardly they share phrases like 'I love you' or ' I miss you',yet the love between them can inspire the world for romance,still so fresh,so enduring, so intense,You may question"How?".Because the words aren't exchanged between them,but they are absorbed in each other eyes.
Further,recently I come across something really annoying and disappointing about love and its criterias! Means what,Now love will also hold CRITERIA'S!
I was sitting in park while younger brother,who is just seven years old was playing here and there , I noticed a couple sitting few steps ahead me, and what talking like sugar cubes,I used sugar
because their talking were too sweet to rescue ,it was little weird also.I mean how a person can only speak green and red,why not they are discussing about some grey and black.I was just trying to figure out something new interesting about them,as I found in that old couple , unfortunately they both were still exchanging that's same sugar cubes like'I love you,baby' ,'I love you too'.
I was much disinterested now,suddenly the phone in the hands of the guy rang and the girl asked him to show her the number details, but the guy denied for that.In few seconds the Sugar cube exchanged converted into a battle of poison words,like'Go to hell','Why would I,you deserve that well',etc.
I was like completely shocked,I mean what happened with garden of green and pink , suddenly it was like Desert of grey and black!
This is the most common type of love find in these days,you may be thinking why I ended their love story so fast?, as arguments are the part of love only ,so for that I have to tell you the end of that real drama in the park,so when the girl said,'i am going back',not to come ever' the guy's humiliating action filled me with anger,he slapped that girl,whom he was in deep love.
After some days,I found that guy in the park,with nothing new except his new girlfriend , all along with same sugar cubes.
I don't know mucha about the girl,i didn't seen her yet after that.May be she got her love so brutal,that she decided not to falla again.
The three words are easy to say,but exactly very hard to pay.We say we love you,but do we really stay!
Seduction,Attarction,Affection,Attachment are not subsidiary for love.Still I think ,love is something about giving.I am not at all quoting BIBLICAL LOVE,I am just trying to relate it with trust,satisfaction and concern.Materialistic love,love for physical needs, or something else should be replaced by the sentimental reapprochements,company for life and etenal loyalty for which one needs not to fix investigations and detectives.A love where compromises win inplace of arguments,
A love where selfessness find its way to satisfaction.
A love where'I LOVE YOU'recites not on the tongue,but inside the eyes.
-Niharika Singh
